you're just making numbers up. the 50-30-20 spiel is just crap. completely made up. YOu may not intend to mislead but you don't know how important some things are so you are a bit mushy about the facts.Rower4001 wrote:markinnb wrote:I'll leave it for others to point out that it is nigh near impossible to GAIN weight when in a Calorie deficit.
you can gain muscle while losing fat - this is true. it is also quite difficult although it has been done.
so what you are doing is not working - you can't gain weight and have it be muscle when in a deficit.
a person can change their PERCENTAGE ' lbm and bodyfat... but that is something else.. and it would be at a lower bodyweight.
unfortunately, many young women have been put on such diets by their boyfriend who doesn't really know what's going on. they just see a low number of calories and tell their gf to stick to it. and then may go bonkers on the gf when their special diet doesn't work in reality as it does on paper. they accuse the gf of cheating excessively or whatever. on paper, the numbers look fantastic. it just doesn't work out that way though.
your diet has probably resulted in a excessive loss of muscle which would have reduced your caloric requirement.
and the excessive exercise has robbed you of gains in muscle- you are highly overtrained.
if you are on stims, then you may be able to keep at it, even when you shouldn't have.
if you are not taking stims, then you should be exhausted and starving.
of course, everyone I have ever met who has done something similar as you has denied all of it completely. " all top notch Mate! never felt better !"
but then... here we are.
I know youre trying to better understand my situation and try find the 'truth' , but I think it would be more helpful if you just thought what I should change ? e.g what my calorie intake should be , how much training is too much etc.
you dont' know how much chocolate you're eating , as an example. you said 70% of the time I eat well ( so 30% not well ) but then we discover that its' only 1 day . 1 day is not 30% of the time. so maybe you eat ~ 400 calories from chocolate as that would be about a 30% overage of yoru daily calories.
we have no idea how much you are eating as you don't know.
it's impossible to tell you the number of calories to eat or how to train, when to train.
you need to take 5-10 days off training completely.
how about getting a myfitnesspal account or something and use that to keep meticulous track of your food intake.
how about going to get a scale and measure out your food.
someone is bound to tell you to do squats, deadlifts and rowing on your off days . maybe OHP. maybe some assisted dips . but not all of them on the same day.
but a coach should be able to do that as you are training with the rowing club.
ask him/her what they would suggest to you.
you are standing right there in front of her. .she can do an assessment and help you out.
people who offer suggestions on this site without knowing much or anyting more about you are merely stating what everyone does.
you definitely are overtraining for your goals. you thought that more would be better and get your results faster. it doesn't always work that way.
how about telling us how you are rowing? do you know any of the vocabulary and theory behind rowing? what program do they have you on with that rowing club?
for example , are you doing intervals or long slow steady stuff ?
you dont' know how much you don't know.
as for food, you have to start thinking of yourself as an athlete.