To begin, I would like to offer just one virtue of a good rower.
A good rower has integrity. There are various ways to understand integrity but in this instance I focus on the truthful aspect. Having integrity means telling the truth both to oneself and others, even when we know that they cannot verify our claims. If we continue to lie to ourselves about our knowledge and abilities, I feel we must become worse rowers rather than better. Integrity means getting back on the erg each day with an honest opinion of one's abilities and where to go from here. Integrity means adding helpful information to the discussions without continually reverting to claims about self-worth, preferring rather that we all become better rowers rather than just one of us.
I hope others will find this type of discussion helpful, worthy, and entertaining and look forward to the responses it generates. I understand the possibility of hijack is imminent, however, I think if we keep focused on my original purpose, we can still have a good conversation.

Best Wishes,
Eliot